Ringing in the New Year

January 1st is the first official day in the Gregorian calendar and the first official day of an improved me! [There is always room for improvement.] It's that time again where I look back on the previous year, reflect and make the appropriate changes for 2012. There is nothing unorthodox about my ten resolutions this year as I'm pretty sure the majority of you have similar [if not the same] resolutions.

1. Drink less alcohol. Let's just say this year was a complete write off. I think I consumed more alcohol [including what came back up] this year than the past four years combined. Not that I really regret any of it though [well, most of it at least] because I've had the time of my life and I think that every young adult needs to go through that "party phase." But all in all, alcohol isn't exactly good for you because it's bad for your skin, kills your brain cells, is extremely fattening, etc.

2. Become "healthy". The definition of "healthy" varies between people. To me, it's basically eating balanced meals, exercising regularly, maintaining a standard weight [pretty much the textbook definition of healthy]. The way that I plan to stay healthy in 2012 is by learning how to prepare balanced meals rather than always eating out and by exercising at least twice a week. I'm not one of those people who can stick to the routine of going to the gym at 6pm every night so I want to do more activities like biking [if I can manage to not fall off], rollerblading, skating, etc.

3. Get educated. I really want to read more - not just fictional books but the newspaper, biography's and textbooks as well. It's important to be knowledgeable and be aware of current events and what's happening in the world around us.

4. Manage finances. I need to save. End of story.

5. Travel. I would love to travel somewhere on my own. I can start a conversation with pretty much anybody so I think it'd be great if I just jet set off one day into the abyss; it would have to be somewhere English-speaking.

6. Do charity work. I am a huge believer in doing charity work. Throughout my life I've donated time and money to various organizations and charities, travelled to China to teach English in schools, helped out in an orphanage where children suffered from birth defects such as missing limbs and cleft palate, volunteered at soup kitchens and food/clothing drives and helped out at organizations that deal specifically with homeless children. I have such a heart for charity and making a difference in other peoples lives. I've been so blessed to live in a beautiful home and not have to worry about where my next meal is coming from. The least I can do is give back to people who aren't as fortunate as I am. This is something I am so passionate about and hope to do more of in the new year and encourage everyone to do the same.

7. Go green. Reduce, reuse and recycle! This past year, I started a recycling bin at my work to get everyone to recycle their bottles and cans. We need to continue to take care of the world we live in. It's a beautiful place; let's keep it that way.

8. Be beautiful. As important as keeping my nails chip-free, hair coiffed, eyebrows shaped and eyelashes curled may be, inner beauty trumps all. There is nothing more unattractive than a bitch with a pretty face [other than a bitch with an ugly face]. For the most part I think that I am well-mannered, considerate and have good intentions but I am definitely no Saint.

9. Make an effort. Sometimes life gets busy and I become guilty of letting things slide. The most obvious damage is done to my poor bedroom which doesn't get cleaned nearly half as much as it should or split ends that don't get trimmed as often as they should or some form of exercise [other than walking to the pantry] that doesn't even happen.

10. Have fun. Last but not least and maybe even the most important is to let loose, get wild, make memories and have the time of my life. You only live once so you might as well make the most of it.

In 2012 I want to do things I've never done, love like I've never hurt, make a difference in someones life, stay up all night, sleep all day, challenge myself, mature, push my limits, try something new, create something, do something I'm afraid of and never stop laughing.

Happy New Year!

Happy Hanukkah!

A Beginner's Guide to Hanukkah
By Jonathan Safran Foer

CHRISTMAS -- Christmas is a holiday that Christian children have been given to celebrate because they aren't Jewish. Instead of eight nights of presents, there is only one. And instead of getting to eat delicious and nutritious latkes, they are forced to drink something called nog, which isn't even a real word. They touch each other's sweaters while they sing together around pianos, they get into ''the spirit,'' and here's another bad thing about Christmas that should make Jewish children excited about celebrating Hanukkah: Christmas trees are terrible fire hazards.

SANTA CLAUS -- Santa Claus is an obese fictional being who supposedly ''visits'' Christan homes the night before Christmas for the alleged prpose of delivering ''presents'' to ''children'' who have been ''good'' the previous year. It's a bit pathetic that Christian chi9ldren are fed this lamemake-believe, instead of having a really interesting true hero like Hanukkah Harry.

HANUKKAH HARRY -- Hanukkah Harry is a real person who drops in on Jewish homes each of the eights nights of Hanukkah to delivr gifts that are in no way dependent on children's good behavior. Harry spends the off-season in Florida, Keeping out of the sun and faxing missives to Jewish craftsmen in Vietnam to make more dreidels. On Hanukkah nights, Harry flies through the sky in a 1991 Volve 240 wagon (Champagne exterior, mocha interior), pulled by his legal team of Schlepper, Pischer & Blintzes.

MISTLETOE -- It's hard for anyone, especially those of us who wore aviator glasses in high school, to find a problem with mistletoe. (Allergies aside.) Which is why Hanukkah Harry invented it in the first place.

LATKES -- Latkes are a kind of oil, into which small quantities of shredded potatoe have been infused.

HANUKKIAH -- A hanukkiah is like a menorah, but with room for eight candles. Or is it nine? An object of supreme importance, the hanukkiah is passed down from generation to generation and is sometimes the only item in a jew's suitcase. If you don't have the firmest of grasps on the supreme importance of the hanukkiah, you should buy your children very expensive gifts this year. And if you don't have children, would it kill you to have some?Someone needs to inherit the hanukkiah.

TWICE-A-YEAR JEWS WHO ARE ONCE-A-YEAR CHRISTIANS -- There is a certain kind of Jew who, despite knowing that Christmas is simply isn't his holiday, and that it would severly distress his relatives (particularly the dead ones) if he acknowlaged feelings of Christmas Envy, much less acted on them, get a Christmas tree anyway. And does the leaving-a-cookie-out-for-Sants thing. And the sweaters and nog. But of course he never lets any of it interfere with the Hanukkah celebrations, whatever they are. And you have to admit, ''Silent Night'' is a seriously beautiful song.
Then one day this twice-a year Jew who is a once-a-year Christian walks in on his children talking about Baby Jesus. So he sends them to Hebrew school, whee over time, they learn Christmas Envy. And the cycle repeats itself.

CHRISTMAS TREE -- Christians chop down trees to make houses to put trees in. The absurdity of this need not be elaborated on. Which is not even to mention that they hang perfectly dry socks over the fireplace, and rack up enormous electricity bills with the lights they put outside their houses. That's right, outside their houses.

KWANZAA -- No one is quite sure just what Kwanzaa is.

DECORATING THE HOUSE -- While Christmas decorations are recognizable and straightforward -- mistletoe, a tree, red-and-green knee socks above the fireplace -- no one has figured out how to decorate a Jewish home on Hanukkah. Some might say that the hanukkiah is decorations, but it isn't; the hanukkiah is a ceremonial object, with specific, non-decorative purposes. Perhaps the Stars of David that many string about are appropriate Jewish decoration? They are blatant imitations of Christmas decorating. Dreidels? They're toys. Latkes? They're food. What does it tlook like to celebrate Hanukkah?

This oses the larger problem of Jewish decorating: What does a Jewish home look like? How can a Jew indetify without resorting to imitation, kitsch or the display of celemonial objects? With Chagall prints on the walls? With trinkets bought in Israel when it was hard to go to Israel? With the Philip Roth backlist on the shelf? This paper on the stoop every morning?
Is it necessary to decorate at all?
And if not, what do we do with that feeling of necessity?

CHRISTMAS SPIRIT -- The following Christmas carols were written by Jews: ''O Holy Night'' (Adolphe Adam), ''Christmas Song'' (Mel Torme), ''White Christmas'' (Irving Berlin), ''Let It Snow, Let It Snow'' (Sammy Cahn and Julie Styne), ''Silver Bells'' (Jay Livingston and Ray Evans), and ''Rodolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer'' (JohnnyMArks). The Grinch in ''The Grinch That Stole Christmas'' WASN'T Jewish, but the composer, Alber Hague, was. No one has contributed more to Christmas spirit than the Jews. We contributed the birthday biy himself, for God's sake.
Window displays are always more attractive than the gifts you receive -- even if you receive what was in the window. Jews engage Christmas in its ideal form: for the outside. Unspoiled by family friction, or commerce, or anxiety about the wrong gift, we can experience the purest spirit. Someone else's spirit that we compose music for. And look at from the other side of the window. Christians should envy us envying them.

HANUKKAH SPIRIT -- Hanukkah spirit is the Christmas spirit as experience by Jews.

HANUKKAH GUILT -- You don't pay enough attention to your grandparents, or your parnts, or spouse, or siblings, or children or dog. Or yourself, for that matter. Your life has no meaning. You can't even remember just what, exactly, a hanukkian is, even though one was schlepped acre=oss an ocean for you.

HANUKKAH GELT -- The only known antidote to Hanukkah guilt.

THE GREAT MIRACLE THAT HAPPENED THERE -- In the second century before the Common Era, the Maccabees led a rebellion against the Greek occupiers. Against all odds, and outnumberes 20 to 1, the scrappy band of Jews was victorious. The temple in Jerusalen was reclaimed, and the hanukkiah (then known as a simple menorah) was lighted in celebration, using the scant oil that was found lying around. It shouldn't have been enough to burn through the night, but when the sun rose the next morning, the flame was still going strong. It burned through the third night, and the fourth and the fifth. The oil lasted eight nights. A great miracle happened there.

THE GREAT MIRACLE, CONTINUED -- It lasted a ninth night, and a 10th and a 20th. After a month, the hanukkian began to melt under the heat of the miracle it proclaimed. It spilled over the bimah and onto the floor. The fire spread, Hallelujah! The stained-glass windows were illuminated to those standing outside, watching the miracle engulf and swallow the building, and those trapped within it. The fore spread -- the chosen people, we are a light unto the nations! -- and has yet to be stamped out in many places. It is unknown just when we can be expected to get back to normal, non-miraculous living.

DREIDEL -- The dreidel is a spinning toy, painstakingly fashioned out of plastic polymer by Jewish craftsmen in Vietnam. Used for tabletop gambling games during Hanukkah, the dreidel often ends up on the floor and sometimes in the dog's small intestine.There is a Hebrew letter on each of the dreidel's four sides. These letters abbreviate the statement: Spin it again. You have no idea what is means. You spin it again. You try to make sense of it. Spin it again? You spin it again.

THE MYSTERIES OF HANUKKAH -- What, exactly, does the dreidel have to do with Hanukkah? Why is Hanukkah celebrated like this only in the United States? Why is Hanukkah a minor holiday and not a High Holy Day, and why are we proud of that, and why don't act we act as though it's minor, and why are we worried about decorating our homes? Is it possible to celebrate Hanukkah without succumbing to imitation, kitsch or commerce? Is there anything morally inconsistent, as Jews and as American, in celbrating a holiday that is ostensibly about the removal of occupiers? Could Hanukkah exist without Christmas?

Like all Jewish Myusteries, the mysteries of Hanukkah can be taken in one of two ways: they can serve either to undermine or sustain. The questions frustrate some to the point of walking away. Some find resolution in the questions themselves.

Chag Chanuka Sameach!

Pheromone for him

My favorite scent on a guy is a toss up between Tide laundry detergent and Gain Joyful Expressions laundry detergent. However, that was until I came across CREED Aventus on one of my weekly visits to Holt Renfrew; I just had to buy it for one of my really good guy friends. [Lucky him.] I absolutely love this cologne; I don't think I've ever smelled anything better. The New York Times called this scent "mesmerizing" which I think is the most perfect description; you won't understand until you smell it.

Choosing a cologne can be tough, especially because there are so many to choose from. If you're currently using Abercrombie & Fitch Fierce, get rid of it! That scent was only ever acceptable from grades 9 to 11. Just like fashion, there are new scents every season so don't hesitate to switch up your fragrance frequently but you should always have that one 'go-to' fragrance [like CREED] that will never go out of style. 

Colognes are meant to accentuate not overpower so don't ruin it by overloading! If I can smell you from a mile away, you've put on too much. If you leave a perpetual lingering scent in my room for the next three days, you've put on too much. If your fragrance overpowers mine, you've put on too much. Key word: dab not drown; at the base of your throat or a quick spritz on your chest before heading out the door.

Tip: a good fragrance can last up to five years. Store your scents in a cool dark place, away from direct sunlight at room temperature. Heat and light can alter the chemistry of the scent molecules.

Sniff, sniff!

Let's get this party started

'Tis the season... For an overload of holiday parties. We've got work parties, family gatherings, the odd birthday, new years, etc. It's all coming up! And now for the infamous question - what do I wear?! Putting together an outfit for these outings were a lot easier than I thought it would be. Here are some ideas for you too! Outfit number ONE is something I would wear to a work party [it's very office appropriate and sophisticated]. Outfit number TWO is something I would wear to a family gathering. I always like to look rockin' especially if I'm only seeing these people a few times a year. Outfit number THREE is what I would wear on a girls night out holiday party. [That dress is dying to be danced in.]

Not only should you plan your outfits ahead of time, you should also ensure that you have a safe means of transportation to and from your holiday party. Nothing clashes more with an outfit than a big, fat, DUI ticket.

Happy Holidays!

A cup of cheer

I used to hate eggnog... Until a friend of mine convinced me to try the eggnog latte from Starbucks and oh my goodness is it ever delicious. If you haven't yet tried this heavenly drink, I most definitely suggest that you do otherwise you are only depriving yourself.

Yum!

Big things come in small packages

Speck; SeeThru for iPhone4S/4
Jack Black; All-over Wash
Alexander McQueen; Patent Leather Wallet
Franck Muller; Crazy Hours
Miansai; Leather and Metal Hook Bracelet
Luis Morais; Ebony and Black Diamond Bracelet
Jack Black; Muscle Recovery Balm
Brooks Brothers; Regimental-Stripe Silk Tie
Oliver Peoples; Bernardo Square Framed Acetate Sunglasses
Valextra; Leather iPad Case

As much as I love receiving gifts, there's nothing that I love more than giving gifts! Every year, the boys in my life have been absolutely spoiled because I like to go ALL out. Even if we set a limit, I always seem to go over it because there really are way too many great things out there for guys! I tend to fill stockings with small, practical things like wallets, phone cases, accessories, cologne and other every day items. Boys - not sure what to put on your wish list? Print this out. Girls - not sure what to get your men? Take your pick[s]. Even though it is probably out of your price range, is that watch not to die for? Youtube Franck Muller Crazy Hours to see the unique dial change between hours. And that Brooks Brothers tie - I love; It is so preppy.

List No.1

Every single year up until last, I've made a Christmas wish list. And usually, these wish lists are about 5-7 pages long consisting of clothes, shoes, perfumes, purses, jewelry, hair products, hair tools, iPods, laptops - pretty much anything a girl could wish for. My parents hate when I give them a list because they say "it ruins the surprise because you already know what you're getting." So last year when the holidays rolled around, I decided that I would bring back the element of surprise and not make a list. Let me tell you - it was a BIG mistake; I ended up with a powder blue, cable knit sweater, some sort of book and a bunch of stuff that I'm sure is still sitting in a corner somewhere collecting dust. This year, to ensure a repeat doesn't happen, I'm making lists! Lists with pictures, prices, sizes, colors and I might even throw in a map to each store. Realistically, I can break it down into two stores - Aritzia and Holt Renfrew.

Aritzia:
- T.Babaton Watson Cape

- Talula Kent Blazer

- Wilfred Azania Kimono

- T. Babaton Deuce Long Sleeve Tshirt

- Gift Card

Holt Renfrew:

- Marc by Marc Jacobs Too Hot To Handle

- Frye Melissa Button Boots

- Christian Louboutin Double Platform Pumps/Volpi

- Gift Card

Other:

- Jennifer Zeuner Large Swirly 3 Initial Pendant

- Cocktail Ring

- Scarf

Mom and Dad, if you come across my blog, please print this!

Happy Shopping.

L.A. BANDS

From LAX to YVR, these L.A. BANDS receive my stamp of approval! I have fallen in l-o-v-e with these silky, gem-tone hair ties. Not only are they adorable and come in a wide variety of colors but they're also good for your hair! Unlike regular elastics which can cause the cuticle layer of your hair to become distorted resulting in breakage, these L.A. BANDS provide a strong hold without the harsh grip. The smooth fabric [like that of a scrunchie] minimizes friction against the hair. With everyday wear and tear, dying, straightening, blow drying and curling, my hair could seriously use all the help it can get.

L.A. BANDS FTW!

Home for Christmas

"I’ll be waiting under the mistletoe
while you’re travelling here through the winter snow;
baby think of me if it helps to get you warm.
When the only thing that I really need
is to have your arms wrapped around me;
baby think of me if it helps to get you home,
home this Christmas."

Once again, it's that GLORIOUS time of year; the snow is falling, the fireplace is on, the little red cups are back at Starbucks and I refuse to leave the house without my puffy, black Canada Goose. AND all of 'the boys of Summer' that got whisked away to further their education are back! So, what does one wear when welcoming him home? I'm sure every guy's dream is an all-lace ensemble from Victoria's Secret but that wouldn't be practical in negative-degree weather. Of course you know what's the best to meet your man in but for those of you who aren't up for catching hypothermia, I've put together a little something for you to grab inspiration from. A few words that come to mind when I look at this outfit are: casual, cozy and classy.

Now, don't all go wearing the exact same thing or it will be an attack of flannels, chunky knits and red Hunter's at the airport come mid-December.

Happy December!

Now THIS is what I call an advent calendar! I am a makeup and perfume junkie so you can only imagine my excitement when I came across this little delight on Selfridges. With mini products such as a Lancome Juicy Tube, Viktor & Rolf Flowerbomb [even though I already own the 3.4oz], YSL Belle D'Opium, Kiehl's Midnight Recovery concentrate and more, this advent calendar has taken the countdown to Christmas to another level! This lavish gift [or should I say gifts?] will definitely set the tone for the upcoming holiday; LUXE, LUXE, LUXE! This is way better than cheap chocolate.

Cheers to presents everyday!

Simply mussels

I made dinner tonight and it was a success if I do say so myself. It literally only took me 3 minutes to prepare and 20 minutes of baking time. SUPER EASY! Follow these steps for a quick and delicious dinner:

Step 1: Preheat your oven to 300 degrees.
Step 2: Place mussels in a pan.
Step 3: Finely chop garlic.
Step 4: Mix the garlic with melted butter and add a pinch of garlic salt.
Step 5: Brush garlic and butter mixture over mussels.
Step 6: Place in the oven and bake for 20 minutes.
Step 7: Enjoy!

Num, num, in my tum!

He's leaving on a jet plane

Happy MANday! It seems to me that nearly half of my friends are getting ready to jet set off into the abyss over the holidays. I absolutely love travelling; it's definitely something I wish I could do more of. However, there is one thing I hate about travelling - PACKING! [I am the worst at packing but I'll save that for another post.] Even though out of all the luggage you will pack, your carry-on is probably the easiest, there is nothing worse than strapping up your seat belt and realizing you've forgotten your iPod. To prevent this tragedy from occuring, I suggest making a list! [Did I mention that I love lists?] For all you lovely gentlemen who I know won't make a list, I've saved you the trouble and made one for you! This isn't just a random bunch of paraphernalia thrown together; everything has a purpose...

iPad/iPod + noise cancelling headphones: for entertainment; just make sure your battery is fully charged. 

loafers: you'll want to wear a pair of comfy shoes for a long flight and loafers are practically like slippers.

sunglasses: not only will they come in handy when you land in the sunny Maldives but they'll also hide your sleepy, jet-lagged eyes.

passport: I think this one is a given? Just don't forget it or it will ruin your trip.

camera: you never know when you're going to come across a photo op! Besides, you should be documenting every waking second of this trip.

scarf: you may get a bit chilly being at such high altitudes or get stuck beside a passenger who refuses to close their air vent even when they're buried under a blanket. 

cardigan: this is the easiest thing to throw on when it gets a bit cool, it won't take up a lot of room in your carry-on and can double as a pillow if your airline doesn't offer them.

bag: another given; you need something to carry it all in, don't you? But specifically, I mean a bag. Not only are you a man, you are a stylish man. No mini rolling suitcase. Just get a bag. Preferably structured and leather.

Bon voyage my babies!

Puff - be gone!

They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder; but there's nothing wrong with keeping those beholding eyes beautiful. No more cucumber slices, no more refrigerated spoons, no more raw potato skin strips and no more tea bags! If you're anything like me, the chance that you're getting the recommended 8 hour sleep on a regular basis is slim to none. And of course, people seem to enjoy to remind me that I look tired and run down [as if I don't know that I'm running on 4 hours of sleep - thanks tips]. For those days that you're looking a little more haggard than usual, use an eye cream to de-puff, revitalize and restore those radiant eyes of yours. Look for a cream or serum that contains antioxidants and vitamins. If you can find one that contains yeast extract, it will help reduce the look of dark circles as the extract increases microcirculation in the skin. One of my personal favorites is Clinique - All About Eyes Rich. At $47.50 for the 1 oz jar or $29 for the 0.5 oz jar [from Sephorah], you can't go wrong; this moisturizing eye treatment helps minimize the appearance of dark circles, shadows and puffiness while brightening the eye area and boosting natural collagen production.

Bye-bye puffy eyes!

I come, I conquer

"In life we do things; some we wish we had never done, some we wish we could replay a million times in our heads. But they all make us who we are and in the end, they shape every detail about us. If we were to reverse any of them, we wouldn't be the person we are. So just live, make mistakes and have wonderful memories. But never, ever second guess who you are, where you have been and - most importantly - where it is that you're going."

This quote was a good reminder to me, especially since I've been going through some hard times lately. You may have noticed that I haven't been posting as much but I'm back at it now. Not to sound cliché but what doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. And it sometimes helps you step back and reassess your life. Not everyday is going to be rainbows and butterflies but the strength we find within ourselves to carry on and pull through is what makes us who we are. When life knocks you down and sets you back, you have two choices - let it keep you down or get up and conquer.

Calling all Angels

Hello Angels! As we all know, the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show took place in New York last Wednesday. If seeing all of these dazzling beauty's just short of perfection wasn't enough to get you to the gym then I just assume you are a lost cause. This $12 million fashion show featured some of the most beautiful women in the world and a lot of sweet and sexy lingerie. Just because these women are supermodels doesn't mean they are superhuman. Adriana Lima, Alessandra Ambrosio and Miranda Kerr have all had babies meaning they gained the baby weight... But seeing them on runway also means they worked it off! Please note the word - work. It's not easy stuff but in the end it is definitely worth it. Here are some more photos that will hopefully get you inspired and motivated.

Adriana Lima

Alessandra Ambrosio

Miranda Kerr

Gimme gimme

1. Lanvin. Embroidery Ballet Flat

2. Tom Ford. Private Blend Lipstick Nude Vanilla

3. Marc by Marc Jacobs. Bianca Leather Clutch

4. Deborah Lippmann. Glitter In The Air

5. Robert Geller. David Reading Glasses

6. Stella & Dot. Soiree Pearl Pave Bracelet

7. Zara. Angora Beret

8. Juicy Couture. Bows for a Starlet

Gimme, gimme never gets. Don't you know your manners yet? Well, in this case it does! My birthday and Christmas are both coming up and last year I made the mistake of not making a wish list. Lesson learned. [I won't be doing that again - unless I want nothing.] This year I'm planning ahead and I'm being specific; sizes, store names, colors, styles, etc. I may even map out where each store is so my mother and father have NO excuse as to why they weren't able to find something. Here are a few things on my list that you may want to add to yours as well. Also, if your parents are anything like mine - pictures help!

Macaroon or macaron?

Regardless of the correct spelling of these decadent desserts, MACARONS [Hah! Spell check thinks it should be macaroons] are my all time, absolute favorite confectionery. A macaron is basically a cookie-sandwich filled with buttercream, jam or ganache. The cookie part is a mixture of egg whites, icing sugar, granulated sugar, cream of tartar, almond flour and food coloring. There are so many different variations and flavors of macarons; my two favorites are pistachio and raspberry. Usually I purchase from Thomas Haas or Thierry or kindly ask my best friend [and pastry chef] to whip up a batch. Most recently I came across tea-infused macarons at Urban Tea Merchant; these ones are imported all the way from Singapore and run at $4 a piece. Although these delicious desserts are supposed to be a treat meaning once in a while, I've somehow incorporated them into my diet as a staple food item; I literally go through a 12-pack [in one sitting] every single week. Macarons are my weakness!

Chunky Knits

If I had to choose my favorite piece of clothing for everyday wear, it would have to be a chunky knit! By chunky knit, I don't mean something my grandmother made or the powder blue, cable knit sweater my mom decided to buy me from the Gap one Christmas [she honestly did]. I'm referring to the sweater you throw on as soon as you get home; the one you dress up with a pair of leather leggings and wedge booties; the one you dress down with thermal pants. That sweater.

As Winter creeps upon us, I notice my chunky knit collection growing. From sweaters and eternity scarves to earmuffs, beanies and socks! With so many to choose from, I can't seem to get enough.

My first giveaway

First off, I'd like to thank all of my @realmofrachel Twitter followers! This giveaway wouldn't have been possible without you. I chose COAST restaurant for my gift card giveaway because I have been here so many times and have never had a bad experience. Located in the heart of downtown Vancouver, Coast brings only the best of the sea straight to your table. So now, here is the moment you all have been waiting for... The winner of the $50 Coast restaurant gift card is @TinaLum604! Makesure you try one of their glorious Caesars! I hope you enjoy.

Timmy's Christmas Telethon



Hi Everyone,

On December 4^th, 2011 the BC Lions Society is hosting their annual Christmas telethon which airs on SHAW and its affiliate stations throughout British Columbia. This is something that I am so incredibly honored to participate in. For those of you who aren’t familiar with the BC Lions Society, they are a registered charitable organization dedicated to enriching the lives of children with disabilities by promoting self esteem, confidence and independence. The funds that are donated to this charity go towards specialized services like the Easter Seals Camps, Easter Seal Houses, the Lions Laser Skin Care Centre, Patient Care Grants and the Lions Vancouver Hospital Helipad. They also assist in funding college scholarships to support youth with disabilities to further their education.

I ask that you join me in helping the kids by donating to Timmy’s Christmas Telethon. I will be part of a panel from 4 – 5pm; please call and give your support to a child in need. I strongly encourage you to watch as there will be an opportunity to see the kids you are helping. Together, we can help these children focus on their abilities rather than their disabilities; something every child deserves.

Sincerely,

Rachel Meyers
Realm of Rachel

Run

Run through fat days. Run despite whoever loves you or doesn't. Run through regret and guilt. Run through frusterations. Run through lonliness. Run through those blissful days. Run despite your dysfunctional family. Run through people drifting in and out of your life. Run through your own fits of self doubt. Because we are no longer the people who think constantly of their struggle to dissappear. I choose to be healthy, to grow stronger, to be as alive as I possibly can. Run.

- Unknown



Starting today

HAH! I literally laughed out loud when I saw this because it speaks directly to me. Everyday I say "I'll start tomorrow." Well, tomorrow has come and is now today... And will soon enough be yesterday so I'm going to go exercise now!

Bundle up, baby!

Happy MANday! As we transition from Fall to Winter, the days keep getting colder and colder. Pretty soon a sweater isn't going to cut it so I've posted a few pieces I think that every man needs to invest in. A thick, cable-knit sweater is great for layering; I chose a button up rather than a pull over because it's easier to take off... For when you step indoors! [Get your mind out of the gutter.] Next, three key Winter items are scarves, gloves and hats; these seriously make all the difference in the world. I would suggest a scarf and hat made of wool or cashmere for extra warmth. Try to find either leather, sheepskin or suede gloves because they'll lock in heat better than cotton. We can't forget about your feet - boots, boots and more BOOTS! Not only are they this seasons "IT" shoe, they keep the cold rain and snow out while keeping your toes warm and dry. [Stylish and purposeful.] Last but not least - my favorite - the parka! Canadians don't live in igloos but Canada Goose Inc. makes their jackets as if we do. These jackets are designed for extreme cold weather conditions; they are filled with goose and duck down which locks in warmth. Some designs [like the one shown above] are accompanied by coyote fur which has caused a bit of havoc with animal rights activists and groups such as PETA. If you don't support the use of fur, you can opt for one without! If you're out with your lady and she is shivering, be a gentleman and lend her your Canada Goose - no matter how hard it may be to part with [it will earn you brownie points]... Just make sure she gives it back!

Seafood for breakfast?

This morning I stopped by The Boathouse in Port Moody. The view of Burrard Inlet on a brisk but sunny morning is absolutely breath taking. So, it wasn't exactly breakfast but brunch. Regardless of what it's called, I had never eaten seafood before the P.M. hours before. I must say, I quite liked it. Lobster-Eggs-Benny FTW!

Eat, drink and be merry!

I've been so blessed to be the type of person that doesn't stress easily or let 'things' phase me often. Some people might not necessarily see it as a good thing but I think it's a great thing! Although, my spontaneous, carefree, careless, type B personality can sometimes get me into trouble [a lot of trouble], for the most part, I'm a positive person. However, I'm still human; I have feelings and I feel pressure! With work piling up, trying to figure out school in the Spring, finding a house and regular day to day crap that every twenty year old has to deal with, I finally cracked. BUT lucky for me, a bad day can be turned right around with a little shopping, a box of Parisian macarons, a big bottle of wine and dinner with good company!

On Friday evening while browsing Holt Renfrew for a new purse, I came across a delicious [literally] pop up shop - Kitchening with Carly. I had been meaning to try Carly's macarons for a while so you can only imagine my delight to see a plethora of these beautiful, pastel-colored desserts right in front of me. I couldn't help but purchase a 12 pack and devour the entire box not even 10 minutes later; my two favorites are Pistachio and Raspberry-Lemon. After nearly spoiling my dinner with the glorious desserts, I headed to Cioppino's Mediterranean Grill & Enoteca with a few friends. I don't think I can rave enough how amazing the food was. We had Proscuitto di Parma, Carpaccio, Calamari, Roasted Rack of Lamb and Duck...Duck... paired with dirty martini's [extra olives, extra juice] and a bottle or two... or three of Errazuriz Max Reserva 2007. Everything was absolutely immaculate. Chef Pino Posteraro even personally made us a round of 'Burt Reynolds' and jauntily stopped by our table; it was truly a wonderful night making me completely forget about the havoc I had been dealing with only a few hours prior.

On the hunt

As you may already know, I am on the hunt - for a house! So far it has been a very exciting, nerve racking, stressful and enticing experience. I began looking for humble abodes thinking it was going to be a breeze and that I would fall in LOVE with the first place I set my eyes on but it definitely hasn't been easy-peasy-lemon-squeezy... I have yet to find a place and my time crunch is getting tighter. Not only have I not settled on a house, I haven't even settled on a city! At least not every decision is a tough one. Putting together the perfect outfit for this coming Sunday's House Hunt was nearly effortless. I chose jeans and a cardigan because I want to be comfortable while still looking put together. If I were fully going for comfort I would probably show up to meet with the realtor in sweatpants but there's a good chance he'll be wearing a suit; even if I didn't just roll out of bed, compared to him it will look like I had. Next, I chose loafers. These are my favorite style of shoes at the moment so maybe I am biased and trying to wear them with everything but how can you not adore these shoes? They're like the fancy version of slippers! Lastly, I've dressed up my look with some statement jewelry and added a structured bag [because I am here for BUSINESS]. Now I'm just praying that the weather holds up so I won't have to sub my loafers for rain boots!

Pumpkin + Papaya Face Mask

I came across this DIY pumpkin and papaya face mask so I'm going to try it out this weekend. It will be a great way to use up my left over pumpkins from Halloween; I just have to makesure papaya's are still in season!

Magic in the makeup

We all know that girl who looks like a completely different person without makeup; I'm not that girl! Thank God. I'd like to invite you all for a peek inside my makeup bag! Even though I'm almost always late for everything, I swear it literally only takes me 20 minutes to get ready! Here is my routine:

1. Prep and prime. A simple cleansing face wash and moisturizer will do.
2. Base. I cannot stress enough the importance of getting your foundation matched [professionally]. There is nothing worse than when the color of your face doesn't match the rest of your body. Next, dust a translucent powder across your entire face to set your foundation.
3. Bronze. One solid color across your entire face ends up making you look lifeless and fake. Add some sun by lightly dusting a bronzer across the areas of your face that would normally be hit by the sun; forehead, cheeks, a tiny bit on your chin and down the bridge of your nose.
4. Blush. Smile and apply in circular motions to the apples of your cheeks. Next, gently glide the brush from your cheeks into your hairline to create a more blended look.

*For a daytime look I would usually stop here, finish with some mascara and head for the door.

5. Eyes. Shadow --> mascara --> liner; in that order. Then give your lashes a good curl once the mascara has fully dried.
6. Perfect your pout. I always coat my lips with Burt's Bees - Beeswax Lip Balm before putting on my lipstick. If I'm going out and need to look extra perfect, I'll do one coat of lip balm, one coat of lipstick, blot with a tissue, do another coat of lipstick and finish with a touch of gloss.
7. Scent. Lastly, but most definitly not least, is to add a spritz or two [or three] of your favorite signature scent; neck, wrists and behind your ears.

There we go, you are done! [I feel like I need one of those 'easy' buttons from Staples because that was easy!]

List it out

I love lists! I seriously write, type and plan everything out. If you saw my work desk you would think I have some sort of list-disorder. Since I'm going to be in school next semester, I need to learn how to be money-savvy. To prevent mindless spending, I've decided to create a visual list of things I plan to purchase and then prioritize them by labelling each either 'need' or 'want'. To ensure that I'm not cheating myself by saying I need everything that I want, I've thought up reasons for why each is labelled the way it is.

Need. Red lipstick. Because - at the moment I am scrounging out the last bit of my MAC Red with a q-tip and a red lipstick is a must have in every girl's makeup bag.
Need. Baggy sweater. Because - Winter is just around the corner. It's time to trade in my tanks and tee's for something a little more weather appropriate.
Want. Striking beret. Because - I would like another beret/beanie in a bright color except I already have like ten sitting in a drawer somewhere. [Unnecessary purchase.]
Want. House Of Harlow earrings. Because - I could do without a new pair of earrings. I usually just wear studs anyways.
Want. MK tortoise ring. Because - I have a bunch of rings that I barely wear; they interfere with my typing and while I'm a working woman, I type all day. [Not practical.]
Need. Canada Goose HyBridge Lite jacket. Because - once again, Winter is coming! I don't want to freeze to death - hense this ultra soft, goose down, flexible, breathable, form-fitting jacket. I'm going to vouch twice for this jacket because I truly think that everybody needs one of these to make it through a Canadian winter. Sometimes a leather jacket, a cotton bomber and a cashmere peacoat just don't suffice.
Need. Thermal pants. Because - right now I sleep in a boy's graphic tee. I'm not too sure if these are actual pants or if they're for lounging. Regardless, I think they make for cute pajamas. [I know I swung this one to a need but I actually don't own pajama pants, therefore, this is a need.]
Want. Prada Candy frangrance. Because - I just purchased Viktor Rolf's Flowerbomb literally two days ago. To purchase another fragrance right now [no matter how beautiful it smells] would be excessive.
Want. Nail Polish. Because - I still have nail polish that I haven't even opened yet. Until I use the rest at least once, I am not allowing myself to purchase another.
Want. Justin Bieber Under The Misletoe. Because - Christmas is still two months away. Come December and this will become a 'need' but until then, it can wait.
Need. Lanvin flats. Because - I actually do need a new pair of simple, black, ballet flats. These shoes aren't exactly cheap but I think that if you're going to invest in something, it should be something that you're going to get good use out of. I could literally go on all day about how great these flats are but you won't ever fully pick up what I'm putting down until you go stick your feet in a pair of these. The best way I can think to describe it is the comfort of an Ugg boot with the impecable style of a Louboutin shoe.

Well, now that my LIST is done, it's time for the best part - shopping!

Trick or treat!

I will admit that at this very moment in time I am stuffing my face with Halloween candies provided from my favorite confection store - Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory. I'll also admit that I don't feel the slightest bit guilty because it's Halloween; eating mass amounts of chocolate is a given! This past weekend I attended JetSet Crew's Annual Halloween Party at the Stanley Park Pavilion. This was the first Halloween that I actually put together my own costume instead of purchasing one that was pre-made. Well, technically I did purchase a pre-made costume at first... The downside of online shopping is not being able to try anything on. After purchasing a beautiful ballerina costume only to find out [just two days before the event] that a size small is in fact too big, it was on to plan B... I was a vision in white; a bride! This costume was super easy to put together and I also got to practice a little DIY! It was just short of a miracle that I stumbled along the perfect dress at, lo and behold, H&M Children's! Who knew ages 11-12 years could fit an almost 21 year old. After a little stitching and pinning, I managed to transfrom the $39.99, square-necked, 1 inch strap dress into a stunning, sweetheart neck, strapless fit for an actual bride. Once my dress was complete I threw in a white bouquet, a fake diamond ring, some pearls, a pair of white heels and VOILA I was a bride.

Ps. If you're actually getting married, check out Dash Of Blonde for all things wedding.

Boy, is it ever hard to blog while children are knocking at your door every other minute. It's a good thing I have tons of candy for them. Happy Halloween!

Let's Get Graphic

"I slang in my white tee
I bang in my white tee
All in the club, spitting game in my white tee
I bling in my white tee, serve feigns in my white tee
Fuck a throwback, I look clean in my white tee"

OK, I got the point... Dem Franchize Boyz like their white tee's! However, regardless of 'Crime Mob's' love for the classic white, I feel that it is my social duty and obligation to humanity to introduce to you the Graphic Tee. Although I have always been a fan of graphic t-shirts, my most recent obsession came along with one of my latest additions, the Britney! It was back in July that Britney Spears came to town on her Femme Fatale tour and I had the pleasure of watching both her and Nicki Minaj perform. One of my friends was kind enough to give me a shirt from the concert, thus contributing to my love for graphic tee's [if only it were my size]. Although, as clearly stated above, a white tee is very practical for many things [such as 'slang-ing', 'bang-ing', and 'spitting game in'] it is always great to switch it up. Throw on a Graphic Tee with a pair of jeans, khaki's, cargo's, shorts or slacks! These tee's literally go with everything and can transform an outfit from being a total bore to out of this world. Now that is what I call a party on your chest; woop, woop!

Treat those tresses!

For those of you who don't already know of this amazing line, let me introduce to you the SAVIOUR of all hair care products - Moroccan Oil! As of right now, the line consists of: Oil Treatment, Light Treatment, Hydrating Styling Cream, Intense Curl Cream, Curl Control Cream, Curl Defining Mousse, Glimmer Shine Spray, Luminous Hair Spray, Intense Hydrating Mask, Restorative Hair Mask, Moisture Repair Shampoo, Moisture Repair Conditioner, Oil-No-More Scalp Treatment, Dry No More Scalp Treatment and Ceramic Brushes. My two favorites from this line are the Light Treatment and the Luminous Hair Spray.

The Light Treatment is a light oil that instantly absorbs into the hair leaving it revived, strengthened and conditioned. Put a small dollop of the oil on to your hands and work it through your hair starting at the ends. It also reduces drying time which is a plus on those rushed mornings! I use this after every wash! 

I had yet to find a hairspray that I really liked up until I tried the Luminous Hair Spray. This strong hold hair spray doesn't leave a sticky or crunchy residue yet is able to keep my hair in place. It is infused with argan oil which adds shine for a healthy glow. For extra volume, spray at the roots of slightly damp-almost dry hair, flip your head upside down and blow dry!

Moroccan Oil products are never tested on animals and whenever possible, recycled packaging materials are used! Enviromentally friendly = BONUS!

In love with LANVIN

I absolutely adore Lanvin flats! I will so proudly admit that these effortlessly elegant ballet flats are the best pairs of shoes to have ever touched my SOUL [spelling error intended]. These beyond fabulous flats provide the best in style, comfort AND arch support; something that is difficult to find in a pair of simple ballet flats. I've already put two pairs on a list of things for my mother to bring me back from Europe. Although these flats may cost you a pretty penny, they are very well worth it! Let me tell you... After an eight hour day in these, your feet will be thanking you.

How can you not fall in love?

Rock My World

Dolce&Gabanna: leather bomber

Emporio Armani: watch

Rag & Bone: shirt

Paul Smith: scarf

DRKSHDW by Rick Owens: jeans

Converse: shoes

Usually I prefer preppier styles but every now and then I like a guy who can ROCK my world! Nothing says sexy like black on black so I chose an all black exterior with just a few hints of color... Mind you, they are pretty big hints. Dark denim is a must have in any man's closet because a dark jean is more sophisticated than a light pair yet still more casual than slacks or dress pants. A leather jacket is the jacket of the season - you just can't go wrong with one. Instead of a tee, I picked a plaid dress shirt to keep this outfit from being too grungy. I have fallen in L-O-V-E with these leather John Varvatos Converse sneakers because they scream cool. I know most of you aren't going to run out and buy a purple scarf but trust me on this, it looks great - however, you can ease yourself in with a grey scarf if you need to. Lastly, add a little bit of arm candy [stack on the same wrist] and you're good to go!

Thanks!

I hope everyone is having an amazing long weekend. The holiday may consist of family gatherings, a WHOLE lot of turkey, stuffing [mi favorita], pumpkin pie and other sweet goodies but the whole point of Thanksgiving is to give thanks! Who knew? On January 31, 1957, the Canadian Parliament stated that "A Day of General Thanksgiving to Almighty God for the bountiful harvest in which Canada has been blessed - to be observed on the second Monday in October." Here is my Thanks...

First and foremost I would like to give thanks to God as I have truly been blessed in all aspects of my life; I give thanks to my family for their endless support; To my best friend for being the sister I never had; To my friends for making every moment of our lifes together exciting; To every teacher, leader and boss for the knowledge and guidance that has been passed on to me; To Brian Hill for being able to turn any one of my bad days into a good one; And finally, to Polyvore for making online shopping a breeze.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Ketchup And Mustard

One of the most popular trends you'll see this Fall season is ketchup and mustard. No, not the condiments... And I'm not talking about stains on your shirt either - those are never in style. Wear these colors together, wear these colors separate, I don't care just WEAR them! If you're a little fashion shy, do a ketchup lip or a mustard earring. Who knew hot dogs would inspire a trend!

Happy Rosh Hashanah!

HAPPY ROSH HASHANAH! Technically, I should have been wishing you all this last night at sundown but I've been busy. [Although, 'busy' is never a good excuse.] However, I've wished you a happy holiday now so all is forgiven. Since it's the beginning of a new year, we get to make some resolutions:

1) Get educated - I'm well on the way to that.
2) Get active - The goal is to workout at least 4 times a week.
3) Go green - aka reduce, reuse and recycle.
4) Travel - NYC is next on the list.
5) Become a 'better' person.

Well, that's all I have time for. Off to eat some apples and honey.
L'Shana Tovah, my loves.

Krazy For Keith

 

Howdy, howdy! I have converted into a Country lover! Well, let's not go too far... But to say the least, Keith Urban rocked Rogers Arena last night! Before last night, to call myself a fan would be a lie. However, I am proud to admit that I am now crazy for Keith! The concert was beyond amazing; not only because he is so talented but because he interacts with his audience SO well [he even brought fans on stage and gave a girl his guitar!] Out of all the concerts and shows I have been to, this was by far one of the best!  PS. I touched him.